Black Parents Who Publicly Humiliate Their Children

 Black Parents Who Publicly Humiliate Their Children 

By Chance Kelsey, chancellorfiles.com

I witnessed a very unfortunate situation Thursday night. I had just left a fast food restaurant named Wienerschnitzel (pronounced wener snitshall), and stood at the stop light. I was standing at the stop light facing the north waiting to cross the street to go to starbucks and get some coffee. I noticed coming across the street from stop light in the North direction was a black man, black woman, and a black boy about the age of four or five years old. As they walked across the street the boy was walking fast and ahead of his parents, the father started saying slow your blacks ass down, wait, bring your black ass here, you’re black these cars can’t see your black ass at night.

I watched but did not make eye contact with the mother, father, or the little boy. I observed in an undercover way so they would not feel I was trying to eavesdrop (over hear) on what the father was saying. I did not want the little boy to know I heard what was said to him.

When they had made it across the street they sat down on a boulder that was located under a tree about 15 to 20 feet behind me. The father was wearing a gray wool cap that looked like a beanie, blue jeans, and gray jacket and the mother had on blue jean jacket, blue jean pants, and the boy had on a gray jacket, blue pants, and his hair was short. All three had on dark color shirts but it was to dark to what colors the shirts were. All three had caramel brown skin complexions.

The mother did not ask the father to stop talking to her son like that. This could possibly mean that she treat the child like that also.   

I felt sad for the little boy — he was a handsome young kid. I was glad that there were no other people around. I said to myself I am light skin, and I can be seen at night. So the father implying that black people who are dark skin and Carmel brown skin only, and can’t be seen at night well this only happens once in a while to a black person at night. I have some black ancestry, and I shine like the average Mestizo Latino (mixed with white and Native Indian) at night time.

I will admit that yes it is true – that sometimes a black person who has dark skin or caramel brown skin if in certain dimly lit areas can not be seen – this is rare. The average person can be seen at night. When a crime happens at night you will notice that the witnesses often are able to give a description along with the skin complexion of the assailant.

I understand the concern the father had for his son – but to embarrass him like that was uncalled for. I also feel that the father does this often to his son in public. I have seen many black women call their kids black mother fucker, nigger, black ass, and talk rude to them in front of other back people and people from other racial groups. I have seen black men do this also. They don’t even have the decency to wait to they get home (to yell at their kids).

This is one of the reasons many black kids grow up to dislike their parents or parent who raised them. The father and mother both looked like the ghetto type black folks. I have noticed it is mostly ghetto type blacks who say these things in public to their kids. I have seen some middle class blacks do this but not many, mostly ghetto type blacks.

The father’s tone of voice when he was calling his son black ass had strong vibration of disgust and dislike for black people in it. His subconscious mind he was revealing a type of secret dislike for his own race. I am not saying he hates blacks totally – but there is a side of him that seems to dislike black people too some degree.

Often I have seen when blacks get angry with blacks they call them “niggers” and other names that many other ethnic groups call blacks when they want to be offensive towards blacks. Black Americans need to be careful about saying these things in public to their children. It also, makes intelligent blacks not want to associate with blacks who can’t act civil in public. I wonder whether or not the man was actually the little boy’s real father or just his mother’s boyfriend?

I respect all of those good black parents and single parents who wait to get home to chastise their kids – because it should be done at home and not for public display. 

It is not good to publicly humiliate, embarrass, scream at, and insult your children in public.       

I hope the little boy grows up to be a great man and successful in life.

 

Written during the 21st century by Chancellor (chance)

 

 


  1. phx

    Nothing hurts a child like being called names by your parent(s). My dad liked to call me “stupid.”
    Fortunately, some kids who are abused this way grow up to be exactly the opposite, determined that their children will never suffer that kind of treatment (that was the path I took).
    Unfortunately, some kids grow up to treat their own children the same or worse.
    What a horror show.

  2. Chance

    PHX,

    What you have said is so true, and it is sad to see this pattern manifested generation after generation.

  3. Elle

    Not only ghetto blacks do this. Many traditional Africans do too. I have an aunt who humiliated me in front of strangers, getting close to my face and screaming, threatening to slap me, etc. She has yelled at me publicly several times. She has a very bad temper. To this day I am very uncomfortable being around her because I am wary of her lashing out and I don’t think she really even likes me.

    It has contributed to my disdain for African culture as inferior to the West. I see that African culture is a gerontocracy (run by elders) and children are treated like dogs. In some homes a child has to walk on her knees until the father says it’s ok to stand up. In other homes the child can’t say a word unless spoken to. That’s impractical. The child may have something important to say, like there’s a fire or she’s being molested. That’s what I mean when I say that a gerontocracy is inferior to a youth-run society like the West. Everyone knows that the youth are the most innovative and energetic segment of people, while elders are slow creeping beings with little technological know-how. Black families operate like shoddy communist states. You should write about African family traditions, the good, the bad, and the ugly.

  4. AP

    The same types of observations described in
    the thread can be said of many of the other
    poor (and often many middle-class) racial /
    ethnic / cultural minority and white parents
    .

    In addition, there are many parents of all
    races and admixtures who tend to volley
    between either ‘publicly chasting’ their
    children — and / or — between ‘letting
    them run rampant’ without intervention.

    As awful as the situation described in the
    thread is — such criticism can be applied to
    many various groups — and it does *not*
    at all appear to be any more ‘unique’ to or
    even ‘more severe’ with the Black parents.

    Just my observation.

    Have a great day everyone.

  5. Chance

    @ Elle,

    Thank you for sharing your experience with the chancellorfiles readership. That was very courageous of you, and it will help others who read it. It I so sad you had to experience that. I know that if or when you have children you will not do that to them. Parents, aunties, uncles, relatives, and even teachers at school need to beware that yelling at a child in public can cause them to become to shy and fearful when they grow up. It can even make them less compassionate and very ruthless towards other kids and adults when they grow up.

    Thank you very much, Elle

    @ AP,

    I do agree that it is not limited to blacks, as Elle made known that even in Africa which is another continent this can be seen and observed. I agree that other ethnic groups have members among them who do it also, and letting your kids run wild in the store and out in public is just as bad. Letting your kids run wild unsupervised is one of the ways some one can snatch your child away and sexually assault and murder your kid.

  6. AP


    Chance wrote:I do agree that it is not limited to blacks
    …I agree that other ethnic groups have
    members among them who do it also, and
    letting your kids run wild in the store
    and out in public is just as bad.
    Letting your kids run wild unsupervised
    is one of the ways some one can
    snatch your child away and sexually
    assault and murder your kid.

    AP’s response:

    Agreed — 100% !!!

    And I wish more parents in the world were
    much more aware of the inappropriateness
    of ‘publicly chastising’ their kids and also
    of ‘letting them run rampant’ — as, just
    like you have pointed out on this thread
    either can lead to damage of the child.

  7. Elle

    You’re welcome Chance and thanks back at you. It’s good to know that it may help others. Yes I will definitely not treat my child or children like that.

  8. Chance

    @ Elle,

    Cool!!!

  9. Thassan

    It’s kind of sad when I see “Getto” behavior,
    especialy among young mothers. When they are out in public, yelling and sreaming at their children, Have of the time the children are just acting out what thier use to. Also Some of the mothers can’t help it. Its because of how they were raised.

  10. LaKair

    yea that’s wrong, they could have told him in a nicer way. not only blacks do that. i’m from tha south and i hear whites calling their kids crackers and telling them their nothing but S#it. so it’s not limited to blacks. Nowadays folk want to blame blacks for everything when all races do it.

  11. Chance

    @ LaKair

    You are correct it is not limited to blacks, whites, Hispanics, and other ethnic groups do it too. I have noticed also among many (not all) Hispanic immigrant mothers and fathers especially Hispanic immigrant mothers, they let their kids run un supervised all over the place, store, in public, etc this is very dangerous. So one can snatch their kids up and take them off some where.

  12. James Shelton

    Chance Wrote:
    Friday, February 15, 2008 at 7:46 pm –
    @ LaKair

    You are correct it is not limited to blacks, whites, Hispanics, and other ethnic groups do it too. I have noticed also among many (not all) Hispanic immigrant mothers and fathers especially Hispanic immigrant mothers, they let their kids run un supervised all over the place, store, in public, etc this is very dangerous. So one can snatch their kids up and take them off some where

    so Chance if this is true, so why single out black parants. Your does blog nothing but try very hard to see the bad in black people. in one of your article you mention black individual who try to gain aceptance from the white community by saying bad things about the black community. i thiink you are guilty of this, apart from the fact that you are not black, rather biracial as you say.
    A white man wuld be branded a racist if he or she were to write some of the things contained in your blog about blacks, but some reason you are getting way with this. i think you are racist before you are some one of another race stereotyping other race. Just because you have black in you does not justice you obvious racism. and just because you have hate the black part of you, does not mean black harbour the feeling about their blackness.

    Why are you going out of your way to make black look bad. I can see that. is a shame that you feel so about blacks. all your article seems to attack the black community.

    think about this chance.

    and i think this story is made up. by the way am half indian from the country india and half nigerian. so what do i classify mysleft as. i look black so i call myself black.

  13. Chance

    @ James Shelton,

    The story is true, and is not made up. What I write about is based upon what I have observed, and I write about other ethnic groups too, not just blacks. I am not filled with self hate. I have written about whites, Hispanics, and Asian at this blog. I have criticized various ethnics groups at this blog.

    Blacks are not singled out go look through my archives.

  14. James Shelton

    Black were definetely singled out in almost all your articles. you only made referenec to hispance after one made a comment that, the incident described doesnt not only applied to black. then you made a comment that Hispanic immigrants are equally as guilty of this.

    why is it that you almost never made bad comment or criticised the white community.?

    As a black man i feel really demoralised by most of your articles and your comments. this particularly hurt as its coming from someone with african ancestor in him.

    please remember that young childrn, black, whites, mix etc come across your site.

    words like low iq, bad and good hair, hateness for the colour blacks, niggar, are words that promote inequality in society. so be careful when you talk about race issue.

    some of the injustice that blacks faces on a daily bases, to a very greater ectent would never be faced by mix people. please take that into account when writing articles

  15. James Shelton

    You could have fooled me with that last responds. Like most of your comments and articles this article appeared to be singling out black people. This was so until a comment from one of you blogger that says that this issue doest not only applies to black. then in you response to this blogger you made reference to the hispanic immigrant with black being at the worst case.

    you see Chance a black friend of mine recommanded this site to me. after what he said about your site i did to visit it. to my surprise everything he said about most of your article and you blogger was right. Your need to belong to a different race, (in order to be associated black) is completely justified. But the way you choose to do this wrong. why because you are using race stereotypes about black people to justify you reasons.

    i have read almost all you article, and am yet to read a positive comment/articles about black people. and also a criticism about white people.

    you see chance, wanting to be classed as a different race is not the problem, i believe that people have right to do as they chose, but using race stereotypies about black or any race for that matter is wrong. words like bad and good hair, iq level, the prefer of asian women over black woman etc all promote and justify racism and inequality.

    Be very careful what you write mr. they are young people of all race that come across you site on a daily basis. these kids are most likely to internalise racism, which could lead to further damage.

    one more thing why do you choose not to attack some of you mix race bloggers that say bigotry comment about black people, but choose to attack the black ones.?

    whether you believe this or not you are promoting division and inequality. i still very much believe that mix people are key to promoting anti racism and equality, please be one of those.

  16. Randi

    whether you believe this or not you are promoting division and inequality. i still very much believe that mix people are key to promoting anti racism and equality, please be one of those.

    The truth needs to be revealed. Mixed raced people do not bridge communities at all as you’re starting to realize. This is their way of signaling to whites that they would like to join them for the most part and this is why I want them to cross on over COMPLETELY. The sad thing about it is they will create a hierarchy amongst themselves because all of them are not attractive, do not possess light skin and “good” hair. LOL!!!! I can’t imagine what it’s like to hate one-half of my heritage, but I have no sympathy for those contributing to racism blacks have to deal with on a daily basis. There is no doubt in my mind that most of them are EXACTLY like Chance and blacks need to lose any affinity or high regard they may hold mulattos. In some ways they are truly worse than whites out of desperation to join their ranks. I will never trust a one of them, but will at least maintain basic decorum and nothing more.

  17. james shelton

    sorry kelvin is james. my comment wasnt posting so i did again with my middle name..

    Chance take a look at old or even recent article. for example, the spread of hiv amongst blacks, the break up of black relationship after having babies. so many more articles like in your site. the thing that they all have in common is promoting the negative stereotypies about blacks,criticising every thing black, and expressing your dislike for the black population, even thou you know only about African Americans and not other blacks. no idea of african culture and and it works.

    Go back and read them, and some of the blogger comments.

    The reason why Aid is very high in black individual is because of low resistance to the disease compare to other race. so tell me why is it that hiv transmission is high in the gay community? there are alot i could say about other of your article but am chosing not. some of the words you used are ignorant, and uncall for.

    i feel really hurt and dishearten by most of your comments and articles, that my eyes are begining to weep.

    After all that blacks has been through in the usa, you can still see them in all profeesion (doctors, lawyer etc). the thing that get to mme is that you have choosen not to see that just like most whites and other group.

    anyway this will be my last comment to you as it brings me so much pain reading and visiting your site.

    Am in process of planning my wedding with the most lovely white woman in world, and after reading visiting your site and reading comments from you and your bloggers, i find myself asking the question do i want mix kids. AS there is the possible that my kids would one day harbour such hate (dislike) feeling for my race. suddenly i find myself having the same feeling (feelings am not proud of) to wards people of mix white heritage. i hope this feeling would disappear as soon as i stop blogging in your site.

    i hoped that one of your reads of mix white heritage would be more accepting or say something positive about blacks but that wasnt the case here.

    anyway goodluck in your quest, for racial acceptance and in your personal life.

    i did like to say thanks, if did reply to my comment.

  18. james shelton

    Randi. am black from africa with india from the country india. i am black, i might have soft hair but am black. Blacks are the only that have accepted me. some mix white people think so as well.

    I dont know what Chance aims are, but what ever it is he is bringing blacks down, by his commments and articles. whether he is doing this on possible is still unknown to me. he seem sure that this not what he is doing.

    mix race people should have the right to classify themself as they see fit, but bringing other race down (by using negative stereotypies that will continue to hurt black children and black people, that black themself are trying to overcome)in the process is wrong whether its intensional or not.

    Randi, please believe me not all mix white people harbour this feelings that are displayed in the site.

    i have mix white friends that would disagree with chance. Even thou am having second thoughts about having mix children with my soon to be white wife lol.

  19. Melody

    James, I advise you to do some research and track down some mixed race teen blogs. Some are wondering how black men are going to feel once they realize their own kids are just as racist (maybe even moreso) as whites and other nonblacks. They, too, believe their population might become stagnant once people wake up to this revelation, but I doubt it. Too bad more of them do not procreate with each other but rely on black men/white women (the ideal coupling). They do NOT want black women as their mothers. Did you know this? Very few mixed race people will admit that they inject racism in their dealings with blacks and expect us not to react to it. Their sole rallying cry is “blacks are jealous of us”. Many of these people do little to develop themselves hoping to charm blacks into being their lackeys and benefactors. They can’t stand blacks who love themselves and refuse to bow down to LSGH worshipping the ground they piss on. I think it all has to do with how your children are raised perhaps. Just lurk on their blogs. It sure did open my eyes and I’ll never see them the same going forward.

  20. james shelton

    Thank Melody for your feedback and for replying to my concerns. You see Melody i have exclusively dated black women in the past. suddenly i fell for a white which i thought would never happened.

    when i was younger, i never wanted children because of the fear of them facing racism and injustice in the arms of other race group (white especially).

    when i meet my soon to be wife, she wanted children. The other day we were discussing it, so i decided to do the some research, which lead me to this site. coming from a mix heritage (indiab father) and living in africa and the uk for most of life, i never had difficulty with blacks or africans.

    am feeling very confused now. some on the content in this site is very demoralizing to black.

    my soon to be wife really wants kids, and she could leave if say sorry i dont want kids. i really cant do that to her, and i love her.

    can you recommand a better mix teen sites.

    thanks melody.

    melody are you mix?

  21. Melody

    James, I’m Black American but I stumbled onto one mixed race site and it was like a Pandora’s box from there. Since that time I’ve read countless blogs and sites and now I’m a firm believer that blacks must distance themselves from this group. I know all of them aren’t the same, but it’ll always be in the back of my mind that they are. I’m very selective about sharing information and if I posted my email address so we can communicate directly anyone could respond and claim it’s you. Try googling teen mixed race, biracial, mulatto blogs and something should turn up. I don’t find them much different in the UK. Most of the time when they crop up in black discussions, the first thing they announce is the color of their skin and hair texture. I find most feel inferior to whites and believe they can subjugate blacks at will. It ain’t happening here. I have tons of info and will drop some of my “gems” from time to time. Stay tuned.

    I’m finding that their racism is hitting their black fathers very hard once they realize the role they played. Please be careful because many of these men hate on black folks to their mixed kids more than the white women sometimes. Also many of these kids are born to unwed white mothers and their fathers are MIA so that accounts for another source of their anger towards blacks. After daddy cut out his relatives might not take up the slack so they are marginalized and hatred starts brewing since they’re supposed to be “special” to blacks. Many of them try desperately to fit in with whites only to endure an onslaught of racism against blacks, but they accept whites telling them “I don’t mean you…you’re not really black…you’re different“. Sometimes black fathers who instill superiority complexes end up being the very victim of their own kids. But no matter what whites do your children will love them regardless and consider them individually. It’s not the same when it comes to blacks and Chance is proof positive of what I’m referring to.

  22. Chance

    James wrote: i have mix white friends that would disagree with chance. Even thou am having second thoughts about having mix children with my soon to be white wife lol.

    My response: No you are not! You will have kids with her if that is what she wants and also you prefer.

  23. Jen

    Oh please. “James” obviously can’t wait to have mixed-race children.

  24. james shelton

    Chance am quite disapointed i was expecting a more sophisticated anwser that.

    and Jen you are ignorants as you come across.

  25. james shelton

    To Chance for someone who is view about black as a narrow as the edge of a needle you sure are promoting interracial relationship.

    One would think that some one such as yourself whom is against blacks and feed on the negative stereotype would be against interracial relationship between white and black. But for some apparent reason not known to us this cease to be the case. So what does that suggest to you. There are flaws in your arguement.

    i have been through your post, and i was hoping that you would rspond to most of the issues discussed in my respond to some of your articles and comments. Common Chance lets discuss maybe be i would be able convince you that although your action is just, in the sense that you want the US society to recognise that mix people have a seperate identity from White and black (because other society on earth recognise this to be the case), but you are going about it in the wrong way. Maybe i could suggest a better way to go about this with about alienating both the white and the black race.

    You must must admit that some one the issue discussed here are demolarizing to blacks and african and to a greater degree promote the inequality, racism and division which both white and black are trying to overcome. And the thought that a mix race individual would promote these this behaviour is hard to swallow and such a behaviour is uncall for and unjust (even if you have faced an injustice in the arms of black people) and it should not be tolerated by any race whatever the circumstances.

    i did like to apologise if my response to you seems unpleasant. But any sort of racist angers me immensely. then again am aware that two wrongs not make a right.

    And to you JEN, off course i would love to have children whether being with a black, white, mix , asian woman. But the thing you dont known about me is that i never intended on having kids (mix or black)because of the fear that they might encount racism just as myself, friends and family members have done in the past.

    Like you JEN am mix (but am black even thou my of my parent is asin), but unlike you i dont think that i better than any other person just because i happened to have mix heritage. you should think so either.

    And Jen is arrogant to presume thing about someone you know nothing about, just like you are doing to me now.

    Chance i know you are a proud man, and probably would never admit to your faults, but i sincerely hope if not to me or to your blogger, but to yourself.

  26. Chance

    James wrote: Chance take a look at old or even recent article. for example, the spread of hiv amongst blacks, the break up of black relationship after having babies. so many more articles like in your site. the thing that they all have in common is promoting the negative stereotypies about blacks,criticising every thing black, and expressing your dislike for the black population, even thou you know only about African Americans and not other blacks. no idea of african culture and and it works.
    Go back and read them, and some of the blogger comments.

    My response: Stereotypes and generalizations are valid if they are true, and false if they are not true go read my post titled stereotypes, go to the search box and type up stereotypes. Blacks generalize also and blacks push stereotypes. Plus many African come to American and talk about what it is like in their country.

    James wrote: The reason why Aid is very high in black individual is because of low resistance to the disease compare to other race. so tell me why is it that hiv transmission is high in the gay community? there are alot i could say about other of your article but am chosing not. some of the words you used are ignorant, and uncall for.

    My response: First of what are they doing carrying HIV and AIDS around in their bodies? How did they get it? You are not suppose to have HIV in your body, unless you are the unfortunate victim of a bad blood transfusion or some other thing that was out of your control. They have HIV and AIDS because many of them engaged in unprotected sex, and in some cases sharing drug needles, but in most cases unprotected sex.

  27. Randi

    James, it’s interesting to note how they want that black ingredient to produce more of them and after that you are discarded. That’s their entire philosophy. Many of them don’t like blacks dating mulattos either. Focus on the thinking of these people. They can’t fathom anyone being happy in black skin and think they’re doing you a favor when it’s the other way around. It’ll be great once they are totally on their own, but watch them still keep up their crusade against blacks to gain the acceptance they so desperately crave from white society. I have a feeling there will be a backlash from whites who few them as unwanted interlopers.

  28. Chance


    @ Randi,

    Many whites would love it if mixed race people of FGM and MGM would admit they have European ancestry and be more open to white friendships. The reason Barack Obama is going to be the next president of the United States of America is because he acknowledges his bi racial ancestry and does not make whites feel he is just a black man who hates whites. Obama is seen as black, and admits that he is black because that is how he is viewed when he walks down the streets in America, but he does not come across as anti white, and this makes whites view him differently. On top of that whites acknowledge Obama’s bi racial heritage.

    They will acknowledge the mixed race ancestry of FGM and MGM if these two groups make the effort to acknowledge that they are mixed race — and not just black only, and not just black identified only.

  29. james shelton

    Chance how old are you. you respond sound very young and come that you lack experience. if this is the case i dont think your personally is established enough to come up the conclusion that you reached now.

    There are too flaws and contradiction to your arguement. Sit down and read back your respond.

  30. Randi

    Chance, if whites had accepted you all along you wouldn’t have this dilemma of being viewed as black in the first place. It’s all their doing but I don’t see an outpouring of support from them. Many adult mulattos are still estranged from their whites families and it’s no secret whites will disown you in a heartbeat. That’s why so many of your mothers end up seeking asylum in black homes. Look how those parents kidnapped their daughter and tried to drive her across state lines for an abortion because she was pregnant by a black guy. They got their slap on the wrist and I’m sure they want nothing to do with that mulatto grandchild or their daughter. Why don’t you blog about incidents like this? Scared white folks might get mad?? These people meant business.

    http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2006/sep/06092001.html

    According to a court affidavit obtained by Reuters, the Kampfs chased their daughter into the yard of their house, bound her wrists and ankles with rope and duct tape, gagged her and forced her into the back seat of their Lexus, after an argument between the three family members that morning at the parents house in North Yarmouth.

    After the parents were arrested, police said they found rope, duct tape, scissors and a .22-caliber rifle in the vehicle, as well as an ammunition clip for the rifle in Nicholas Kampf’s pants pocket, according to a report by the Union Leader.

    As far as Obama goes watch all those whites vote for the “white man” once they have that option in November. Also who’s issuing death threats to Obama…blacks or whites?

  31. Chance

    @ Randi,

    That was the past, and things are gradually changing, and some still feel this way. At the same time things are changing, and more and more whites and blacks are becoming open minded to mixed race people self identifying as mixed race. You have blacks who get angry because they son or daughter marry a white person. On top of that many black women are having children with white men and men from other ethnic groups. So times are changing and this is a long process, and I am here to assist in that process.

    The fact that Obama even got this far is very revealing to how America is changing and moving towards mixed race acceptance. Obama got farther than Jesse Jackson did when Jackson ran for the presidential nomination in the early 1980s. Obama has gotten farther than Al Sharpton did when Al ran for the presidency nomination in 2004.

    You come across as a disgruntled person who feels rejected by certain whites, mixed race (FGM and MGM) and other people who see no interest in a black identified person (I really don’t know what ethnicity you though) like your self.

  32. james shelton

    i give up Chance. you are entitle to believe what you want. am tiring of conversing with someone whom refuses to see sense.

    for a grown man i am appalled by you intension and behaviour.

    is it such a bad thing to ask that you see blacks as people, rather than something not moral.

    i see that you have internalise the racism that media and certain racial group throw at black.

  33. Melody

    He can’t allow himself to view blacks with the same humanity as whites because it would undercut the inroads he hopes to gain. Chance stands ready and willing to commit certain deeds just to sit at the right hand of whites.
    It’s clear he also relishes the idea of decimating the black population while keeping whites high on the food chain as their numbers decline as well. Much of their hatred for blacks is definitely fed through their fathers James, so hopefully you won’t hand this legacy down to your own children. Have you discussed any of your concerns with your fiancee?

    is it such a bad thing to ask that you see blacks as people, rather than something not moral.

    i see that you have internalise the racism that media and certain racial group throw at black.

  34. Joseph

    Melody,

    It may simply be a black thing, but I cannot imagine any mulatto wanting to take a back seat to any race. Perhaps in your community you are familiar with these practices, but mulattoes for the most part have been steadfast pillars of success and independence. I think Chance views blacks with humanity, but he is simply showing how blacks hurt themselves with ignorant behavior and living up to negative standards. I agree with him, it’s what I see daily, but that’s generally speaking of course. There are blacks who seek for personal growth and the goodly things in this world, avoiding ignorance, or killing it with the tools of understanding and wisdom.

  35. james shelton

    To joseph.

    i really was expecting that from you. such generalise comment about the entire black. is it not true that mix race people have the same negative stereotypes as black in the US. that is most certainly true in the UK.

    Black all over the world have different culture and view life in a different light. blacks from the Usa are different from black in africa, or from latin american or caribbean. if i were to say all mix race are racist is that fair? or white are racist is that fair? no is not. so why generalised.

    it a shame that most of you can see pass colour.

  36. Melody

    Joseph please go run that BS on someone who hasn’t studied you in your entirety…for good reason.

    James this is a good place to start your education on how mulattos regard blacks. Some of the most vicious racists on this site are American mulattos seeking to infect the Brazilians. Be sure to start on page one after reading this post which I’ve provided some tidbits to give you an idea. Trust me most of them are just like this. This boy was abandoned by his Caribbean father and raised in near poverty with his Jewish mother feeling inferior to all the other whites in his area. He’s a classic!

    http://www.brazzilrace.com/viewtopic.php?t=274&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=45

    TheMulatoKid: I started hanging out with Latinos and discovered the wide wonderful world of Latin anti-black racism. I felt real accepted. They looked similar to me, at least in skin tone, I spoke perfect Spanish, and they accepted me when I said I was mixed. It was like letting a lid off of all my racist angry feelings.

    I had one black friend in kingergarten, and other than him, I didnt like Blacks. I stayed away from them because they reminded me of my precarious position as a maybe not-white enough

    How I feel…

    1) A DARK PART OF ME FEELS SUPERIOR TO BLACKS, AND INFERIOR TO WHITES

    2) I WANT TO BE FREE FROM THE HORRIBLE BURDEN OF BLACKNESS. I DONT WANT AND WILL NEVER EVER ACCEPT BLACKS’ EMMOTIONAL BACKAGE. LET ME GO, AND STOP FORCING ME TO LIFT YOU UP!
    4) WHITES CAN BE EASILY CONVINCED TO ACCEPT US.

    What I want, well, what I think I want……

  37. Cee Cee

    I think a lot of mixed people on this website are bitter and angry especially at black folks because blacks can indentify with a single race and they unfortunatly cannot. I also feel they are quietly bitter at white folks and any other single race for the same reasons, however it is easier for them to attack blacks. People love to use black people as the scapegoat for their problems.

  38. Melody

    I agree, plus they have to pray that most black men like James do not start to question themselves once they know the deal with their offspring. Very good analogy BTW. Mulattos also know blacks aren’t going to take their racism lying down. We’ll work to help them separate, but won’t knuckle down to any wannabe, pseudo-white folks.

    I think a lot of mixed people on this website are bitter and angry especially at black folks because blacks can indentify with a single race and they unfortunatly cannot. I also feel they are quietly bitter at white folks and any other single race for the same reasons, however it is easier for them to attack blacks. People love to use black people as the scapegoat for their problems.

  39. Joseph

    Cee Cee,

    “blacks can indentify with a single race and they unfortunatly cannot.”

    I tend to disagree with this assertion that Mulattoes cannot identify with a single race. We identify with the Mulattoe race. We are new people, with roots in different worlds, different cultures, but we are our own people. I do not think a Mulatto needs to identify with a black or a white person because they can identify with their own race, just as Creoles have done for centuries. I think if anything a Mulatto may get bitter at those outside our race who figure we cannot self identify and MUST either integrate into one or another race apart from their own. Take for instance the Eurasians. You do not give them hell or deny them any self-identification but they are known as Eurasians and no one has a problem with it. When Mulattoes want to self-identify it is usually black folks who have that problem against it. 🙂

  40. Chance

    Joseph Wrote:
    Friday, February 29, 2008 at 7:43 am –
    Melody,
    It may simply be a black thing, but I cannot imagine any mulatto wanting to take a back seat to any race. Perhaps in your community you are familiar with these practices, but mulattoes for the most part have been steadfast pillars of success and independence. I think Chance views blacks with humanity, but he is simply showing how blacks hurt themselves with ignorant behavior and living up to negative standards. I agree with him, it’s what I see daily, but that’s generally speaking of course. There are blacks who seek for personal growth and the goodly things in this world, avoiding ignorance, or killing it with the tools of understanding and wisdom.

    My response: That is correct Joseph I see the general baggage and problems that blacks have. It is not all blacks but enough of them to show a presence that have these social ill problems and enough of them who try to stop mulattoes from self identifying as they please. Now not all blacks are like this but disproportionately too many members of the black American race are.

    Also, Melody, and commenters when you quote another commenter please put the commenters name in front of the quote.

  41. james shelton

    To Melody

    Hello again Melody, nice to hear heart from you again. I have not yet hard the chance to discuss this issue with my finan. And I could almost tell what the reaction would be when I do finally raise up the issue. My decision of not wanting to have children has very little to do with the information I have obtained from this site and from the behaviour of very few mix race people, but it didn’t help matters.

    I am very aware of the difficulty that ethnic minorities (blacks in particular) faces on a daily basis with respect to racism. I know that mix children are also likely to face the same prejudice, as myself and certain member of my family can testify to that. Most often this prejudice are not just from Whites, but also from other ethnic groups, to a little degree from some blacks and Mix race people. It this awareness that have lead to my decision of not wanting to have children (especially mix kids). And if I decide to have mix children, there is also the fear that they might end up holding this negative feeling that is displayed (apparent) in this site towards blacks and Africans. This is more likely be so in my case.

    I was recently diagnosed with Myelodysplastic Syndrome which has the tendency of transforming into Acute Myelocytic Leukaemia. The Chances of survive is very low and I don’t think I would survive it. The fact that I might not be around, for primary education to my kids ( which is believe to be essential for developing of identity) is a primary concern of mine. Because I am probably the only person that could teach them to embrace their black/African culture and to be proud of it. To think that this might be taken away from them does not sit well with me.

    I am due to start my chemotherapy in a couple of weeks from now, because this form of treatment often leave patients infertile, I have been asked by doctors and my financie to deposit semen, which would be use to conceive our child if I am left infertile or in the worst case scenario if death result. I know she would go ahead and do it if latter should happen. At the moment she is trying to talk me into making her pregnant before the treatment starts. This is the purpose for my research on mix race people and their feelings toward both side of their cultures. I was sincerely hoping that this site would help, but it has done nothing but discourage me. If I was with a black/African woman, I don’t think this would be the case.

    Melody. It is important that you know that not all mix race people holds this negative views/stereotype about black/Africans, if any thing these people are in the minority. Majority of mix race people embrace both culture, and in most cases identify solely with blacks. I am mix and I don’t hold this negative view towards any race, and most certainly not towards blacks or Africans. I would like to think that this would be the case with my children, but am not certain. It is of a detrimental to me that they are familiar with their black/African roots and culture and be proud it, just as I am of mine. But the chance of this happening is slim in my case especially if am not going to be around.

    I think she would leave, and I would be very distraught, because she is a lovely woman and I love her dearly.

  42. james shelton

    To Melody

    Hello again Melody, nice to hear from you again. I have not yet hard the chance to discuss this issue with my finan. And I could almost tell what the reaction would be when I do finally raise up the issue. My decision of not wanting to have children has very little to do with the information I have obtained from this site and from the behaviour of very few mix race people, but it didn’t help matters.

    I am very aware of the difficulty that ethnic minorities (blacks in particular) faces on a daily basis with respect to racism. I know that mix children are also likely to face the same prejudice, as myself and certain member of my family can testify to that. Most often this prejudice are not just from Whites, but also from other ethnic groups, to a little degree from some blacks and Mix race people. It this awareness that have lead to my decision of not wanting to have children (especially mix kids). And if I decide to have mix children, there is also the fear that they might end up holding this negative feeling that is displayed (apparent) in this site towards blacks and Africans. This is more likely be so in my case.

    I was recently diagnosed with Myelodysplastic Syndrome which has the tendency of transforming into Acute Myelocytic Leukaemia. The Chances of survive is very low and I don’t think I would survive it. The fact that I might not be around, for primary education to my kids ( which is believe to be essential for developing of identity) is a primary concern of mine. Because I am probably the only person that could teach them to embrace their black/African culture and to be proud of it. To think that this might be taken away from them does not sit well with me.

    I am due to start my chemotherapy in a couple of weeks from now, because this form of treatment often leave patients infertile, I have been asked by doctors and my financie to deposit semen, which would be use to conceive our child if I am left infertile or in the worst case scenario if death result. I know she would go ahead and do it if latter should happen. At the moment she is trying to talk me into making her pregnant before the treatment starts. This is the purpose for my research on mix race people and their feelings toward both side of their cultures. I was sincerely hoping that this site would help, but it has done nothing but discourage me. If I was with a black/African woman, I don’t think this would be the case.

    Melody. It is important that you know that not all mix race people holds this negative views/stereotype about black/Africans, if any thing these people are in the minority. Majority of mix race people embrace both culture, and in most cases identify solely with blacks. I am mix and I don’t hold this negative view towards any race, and most certainly not towards blacks or Africans. I would like to think that this would be the case with my children, but am not certain. It is of a detrimental to me that they are familiar with their black/African roots and culture and be proud it, just as I am of mine. But the chance of this happening is slim in my case especially if am not going to be around.

    I think she would leave, and I would be very distraught, because she is a lovely woman and I love her dearly.

  43. james shelton

    To melody

    That site was awful…, the comment that came out from those people. am still in shock. but there are a couple of mix people that completely disagree and embrace there black brothers.

  44. Melody

    Chance and Joseph need to check with the Mavin Foundation to find out mixed folks are extremely disposed to mental health issues, high substance abuse rates and they’re know to be highly promiscuous as well. Plenty are having babies illegitimately from what I can tell. I look forward to all the separate data after 2010.

  45. Randi

    I’ve noticed some single white mothers stuck raising and embarrased to have mulattos kids treat them like dirt. Many of these children will have stories to tell once they come of age. I read about one white mothers who gave her child to a black couple so she could marry and have children with a white man. She kept telling the mulatto daughter that she was not light enough or else she could have kept her. Dave Myers’ story is quite interesting too. His white mother wants nothing to do with him now and said his black father raped her when she in fact was cheating just prior to her marriage to a white man. When he questioned his darker skin his mother told him he had a skin disease. LOL!!!! He was diseased alright.

  46. Mona

    I am disgusted by the “dark ones” more than ever now. Why don’t they just go away to Jet black websites? ewww.

    They remind me of hairless monkeys. LOL!

  47. Jamaican Childhood

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