Black Parents Who Publicly Humiliate Their Children

Saturday, January 5, 2008 in Black Culture (black people), Mixed race/mulatto, Personal (myself), Social commentary

 Black Parents Who Publicly Humiliate Their Children 

By Chance Kelsey, chancellorfiles.com

I witnessed a very unfortunate situation Thursday night. I had just left a fast food restaurant named Wienerschnitzel (pronounced wener snitshall), and stood at the stop light. I was standing at the stop light facing the north waiting to cross the street to go to starbucks and get some coffee. I noticed coming across the street from stop light in the North direction was a black man, black woman, and a black boy about the age of four or five years old. As they walked across the street the boy was walking fast and ahead of his parents, the father started saying slow your blacks ass down, wait, bring your black ass here, you’re black these cars can’t see your black ass at night.

I watched but did not make eye contact with the mother, father, or the little boy. I observed in an undercover way so they would not feel I was trying to eavesdrop (over hear) on what the father was saying. I did not want the little boy to know I heard what was said to him.

When they had made it across the street they sat down on a boulder that was located under a tree about 15 to 20 feet behind me. The father was wearing a gray wool cap that looked like a beanie, blue jeans, and gray jacket and the mother had on blue jean jacket, blue jean pants, and the boy had on a gray jacket, blue pants, and his hair was short. All three had on dark color shirts but it was to dark to what colors the shirts were. All three had caramel brown skin complexions.

The mother did not ask the father to stop talking to her son like that. This could possibly mean that she treat the child like that also.   

I felt sad for the little boy — he was a handsome young kid. I was glad that there were no other people around. I said to myself I am light skin, and I can be seen at night. So the father implying that black people who are dark skin and Carmel brown skin only, and can’t be seen at night well this only happens once in a while to a black person at night. I have some black ancestry, and I shine like the average Mestizo Latino (mixed with white and Native Indian) at night time.

I will admit that yes it is true – that sometimes a black person who has dark skin or caramel brown skin if in certain dimly lit areas can not be seen – this is rare. The average person can be seen at night. When a crime happens at night you will notice that the witnesses often are able to give a description along with the skin complexion of the assailant.

I understand the concern the father had for his son – but to embarrass him like that was uncalled for. I also feel that the father does this often to his son in public. I have seen many black women call their kids black mother fucker, nigger, black ass, and talk rude to them in front of other back people and people from other racial groups. I have seen black men do this also. They don’t even have the decency to wait to they get home (to yell at their kids).

This is one of the reasons many black kids grow up to dislike their parents or parent who raised them. The father and mother both looked like the ghetto type black folks. I have noticed it is mostly ghetto type blacks who say these things in public to their kids. I have seen some middle class blacks do this but not many, mostly ghetto type blacks.

The father’s tone of voice when he was calling his son black ass had strong vibration of disgust and dislike for black people in it. His subconscious mind he was revealing a type of secret dislike for his own race. I am not saying he hates blacks totally – but there is a side of him that seems to dislike black people too some degree.

Often I have seen when blacks get angry with blacks they call them “niggers” and other names that many other ethnic groups call blacks when they want to be offensive towards blacks. Black Americans need to be careful about saying these things in public to their children. It also, makes intelligent blacks not want to associate with blacks who can’t act civil in public. I wonder whether or not the man was actually the little boy’s real father or just his mother’s boyfriend?

I respect all of those good black parents and single parents who wait to get home to chastise their kids – because it should be done at home and not for public display. 

It is not good to publicly humiliate, embarrass, scream at, and insult your children in public.       

I hope the little boy grows up to be a great man and successful in life.

 

Written during the 21st century by Chancellor (chance)